When they change how they feel about themselves, they also change their confidence and self-esteem. Many of you already understand that both are based on emotions and feelings, not on your self-image, so when you change how you feel emotionally with higher, edifying and positive thoughts They also raise your confidence and self-esteem. In order to change your emotions it is important to understand that there are two basic types of beliefs about the concept of self-image. There is a belief in one or more areas of your life where you feel you are not good enough. This could be related to your financial status, your intelligence, your appearance, or your lack of sexual prowess. A low self-image can be obvious in any area of your life. Then there is a second belief that is his concept of success. Many find that this belief is contrary to their logical thinking, and yet it is necessary if they are to overcome any insecurity and raise their self-esteem and confidence.
You have in your mind an image of success and where you must be in order to be happy. Your mind has this need to compare an image of perfection with the image they have of themselves. Unfortunately when they are busy comparing they start judging and criticizing themselves. When they begin to compare what it takes to be perfect, they begin to reject certain aspects of themselves that are already good enough. Self-rejection creates a feeling of not being worthy of success, of moving forward or of achieving something, and this greatly affects your levels of self-esteem and confidence.
Although the image that you hold in your mind about perfection provides you with a way of feeling good about yourself, this is causing more harm than good. My dear ones, if you let go of the belief that you have to fit into a certain image of perfection, you would also free yourself of feelings of self-rejection and of not being deserving - your levels of self-esteem or confidence would not go down.
When you are ready to get rid of your image of what perfection is, you will notice at first that it appears to be contrary to your own sense of logic and what is necessary to strengthen your esteem and confidence, and this is only because you They are extremely immersed in a belief to achieve perfection that will ultimately provide them with a happy outcome that will include positive feelings and healthy trust along with that success. Understand, my dear ones, your precious minds have been conditioned and programmed to have such emotional associations. You have this innate need to feel such things and to go after an image of the perfection to which you have attached.
What you may not have fully understood, my dear ones, is that when you achieve that image of success, it has little effect on your emotional health. There is no lasting change in the way of thinking and that does not change the way of believing about themselves. We have observed so many dear beings achieving their goals only to find in the end that they continue to feel dissatisfied and unhappy. Of course to achieve this, the first feeling could be euphoric, but it is not permanent. Your core core beliefs are still there, standing by comparing, giving you the notions that you are not good enough to bring a change to a long-term or permanent habit. That critical voice within your mind will end up setting an even greater goal to achieve, while, at the same time, it gives you some feelings of self-rejection when the steps are difficult to achieve those greater goals. The feelings of failure that make you feel inadequate are huge challenges to overcome, but it is not impossible if you change your core beliefs and aim at integrity rather than perfection.
One of the most difficult things to change is the way they feel emotionally. It is essential to change feelings of ineptitude to feelings of being good enough and capable and deserving. My dear ones, your feelings help you create and strengthen your core beliefs. And through them then you create either fear or Love. Understand that the emotions themselves are not the bad boys here; they are merely the result of their negative beliefs. Your image of not being good enough or of not being able to achieve your image of perfection needs to change. One of the first steps to change this belief lies in your ability to recognize that what you are doing is observing the 'image of the' me 'that you have created. Understand that you cannot be this "I" that you are observing. Remember that you are who is watching. This means that, after all, that image of perfection that you have created is not really an image of yourself ... it is not your true self.
When they become more aware they are able to choose not to believe more in what is not an image of themselves that is what they have been observing, not to believe in this supposed 'image of themselves'. When they have this acute awareness they are able to successfully change their perspective, and this change is the beginning to change their belief of their Self. Try to keep in mind that this change of notion of not being good enough becomes easier when you have dissolved your belief in the image of what you considered to be perfection. Without that image of perfection you have nothing to compare with.
When they struggle with their conscience and find it to be insufficient, their mind frequently deceives them and they find that they fail to build their confidence and self-esteem. So many people keep trying to improve your confidence by strengthening your efforts and ways of becoming your image and concept of perfection, which results in you just reinforcing your belief that you should truly become that fictive self-image. The result unfortunately helps to develop stronger methods of self-rejection, criticism and judging; But if they are aware of this they are then able to avoid going after false beliefs and will invest their time and energy in what is ideal and really makes a difference in the way they feel about themselves.
When they make real progress in changing how they feel emotionally, they become more aware of the beliefs and thoughts that are formed in their mind and are able to change those thoughts as soon as they arise to positive and uplifting ones. This project is not overnight; It requires your time and effort, but each of you is already on a development path where progress is slow sometimes, and on other occasions it is so fast that you have to grab your seats. Taking a positive turn to the way they think of themselves emotionally will provide them with the approach to manifest the necessary changes so that they become permanent and change their core core beliefs. Learning not to identify with what is not your 'I' will help you change some of your minor thoughts and beliefs. They will come to realize that they already have everything they need and that they know the areas in which they need their full attention to improve them. You are not on the path to perfection but on the path to integrity, completion and living a much simpler and purer life. Give yourself credit for what you have achieved so far and give yourself space to make mistakes. Dear ones, without mistakes you would not know what needs improvement, you would not appreciate what comes after making a mistake. Errors provide them with an opportunity to try again and choose differently to obtain different results. Embrace where you are right now and accept that YES, it may be better and that you are moving forward with positive changes step by step and one day at a time. We believe in you and now it is your turn to believe in yourself.
And so it is ...
I AM Archangel Gabriel ...
... via Julie Miller
http://lightworkers.org/channeling/199557/embracing-emotional-change
The Emotional Change, Message of the Archangel Gabriel via Julie Miller
