Table of contents hide 1 Another Look 2 Lack of Limits 3 “Diagnostic” labels 4 Hugging them from the heart so they feel our strength of love
Another look
Our hectic life does not leave us a moment to be with our children, we get tired of work, and they claim us, but being so tired, we can not even attend them. There are many parents who prefer to be left alone and the only thing they do is to omit them without realizing that what they simply claim is that they share with them a little bit of games, reading or just being with them.
It is sad to see how many parents (not all) point their children to extra-school children, overload them with activities that when they get home (they are exhausted like us, and make us mirrors, get angry, cry, kick, ... but certainly the only thing they do when they don't know how to express their emotions and their tiredness, they demand attention so that we show them a little love for them, they need us, in every way.
Lack of Limits
There is also a lack of limits in many of them, they feel confused but also lost, they need that warmth from the parents that accompany them to grow internally and externally, they are our mirrors in many of our reactions, such as fears, anger, low self-esteem ... Other parents, they feel overwhelmed with their children, do not know how to manage them, I have seen and felt parents who at that time would leave them somewhere if they could, do not know what to do with them or how to help them.
"Diagnostic" tags
Psychologists are taken to diagnose or label diseases such as TDHA, hyperactivity, asperger ... teachers at school, and when they see a child moved, they already refer him to the school psychologist, who in turn refer him to others, and begin Medication with amphetamines ... etc. drug them in such a way that they are attentive and more concentrated, but at a very high price ...
Hugging them from the heart so they feel our strength of love
In my humble opinion, these children need limits and love, some fathers or mothers who accompany them, so that they help them grow, not so many game machines, or so many material things, just sharing moments with them, and teaching them values such as I respect with love, it can help you a lot.
Enjoy life with them, they are part of us !!!!.
Author: Rosa editor of the big family hermandadblanca.org
