Keys of love and relationships. Failure, success, experience, mindfulness. Transpersonal Log.

What does the breakup of a couple have of personal failure?

Is it a failure to face a couple breakup? Let us recognize that both success and failure are just labels that we place depending on our particular goals. And yet, who has observed between the lines what happens in life, can not deny that the so-called failures are the great teachers when we decide to turn them into experience.

What do I really want now? From which part of me do I now act?

They will be clarifying questions to go through labels and find out if we are really taking steps with consistency.

The fact of becoming aware of the purposes and intentions that underlie our actions, will determine the direction we have, although there are incidents that change it from today to tomorrow. On the other hand, are we really the true drivers of our life? In fact, about every event that happens, as for example it can be a failure, gravitates the entire universe in its holistic interdependence.

Everything is in everything and is the cause of everything.
Nisargadatta

The fact that we take responsibility for our destiny does not mean that we control its flow, but that as passengers of the great Train, we manage a certain point of well-being in the face of ascents and descents.

From this perspective, if at the beginning of our relationship we wanted a united family life, divorce will have its emotional point of failure, although sometimes thanks to it, we find greater coherence and sanity. However, if what we wanted was a fluid and creative life beyond the hows, it will happen that the same act of divorce will not have to be a failure, but just an experience.

What is not an experience? Do we need to label success or failure what life in its infinite Mystery gives us?

In any case, in the failure live the seeds of success that is nothing other than the achievement of our intimate goals that a day ago inspired our soul. We well know that everything that happens in life appears to be understood, beyond wishing for things to be otherwise. That is why if we cross the label of rupture with its corresponding approval or condemnation, we will open ourselves to a wise lesson whose scope we will understand after a while in all its greatness.

The facts are neutral, they are just our beliefs and interpretations
of them the ones that turn them into fortune or misfortune.

Eventually events happen, that is, they occur from that mysterious cosmic melting pot or primordial source of all forms. And in reality, as soon as we focus, we get to intuit that behind our encounters and ruptures, the All is conspiring in sinuous drawing for our awakening of consciousness.

The breakup of a couple, while for some it may be a cause for sadness, for others it is a celebrated news. In any case, it is about living in full attention what we have to do, that is, without approval or condemnation judgments. Each perspective of what happens, projects a different reality, and who can deny that there are the same number of perspectives as human beings on earth?

Among all of them, is not what happens at every moment the best option of the Universe from whose numen everything is created?