It is very apparent that forgiveness is something that many Bright Hearts have trouble offering to others. And yes, there are many reasons why this is difficult for them, and one of them is that if they forgive the other person for any damage she has caused them, that means approving their actions. And there are some dear beings who truly believe that if they forgive someone they will open more and be hurt by the same person, and that they must be reconciled.
Forgiveness, Bright Hearts, is none of these examples. Forgiveness is an opportunity for you to let go of the resentment you feel towards others who have harmed you in any way, no matter how much. If they allow resentment to stay too long, it can become extremely toxic or for its kind nature, and the longer they carry the resentment, the more they will suffer . It is known that resentment causes quarterly effects on your health, your mental state, and adds stress to your home or workplace, adds discord to your being, and further distances you from the healing Light and Love of God.
Yes, forgiveness can truly lead you to the door of reconciliation , but it does not force you to do so; It is your choice to reconcile with the one that has caused you pain and discomfort. Forgiveness frees you from the feeling of guilt that often plagues one's mind, thinking that the incident occurred was missing. There is great power in forgiveness, and when one forgives one accepts whatever part he has played, he forgives himself and releases this to God so that He can replenish with His inexorable love the precious energy that you lost during any time you They were injured and resentful.
Brilliant Hearts, it is important not to carry resentment and let it go. We understand how difficult this can be, but it is vital that your dark and negative feelings go away and you develop empathy for those who have caused you harm and sorrow. The sooner you forgive, the sooner you can restore your inner self and be brought to the feeling of gratitude.
We encourage you to understand that it is true that you cannot change the past, what has been done, is made Brilliant Hearts. There are people who simply lack awareness and apparently do not realize the pain it causes others, or choose not to care. Do not waste your precious energy pondering “how about.” All you are doing with it is to prolong your own healing by staying in the past to rethink what has happened, and it cannot be changed. What has happened in the past is something to learn, but not to stay in it. You are destined to move forward, to wait with enthusiasm for what is on the way, with joy, even when the next step in your career leads you to a new territory.
It is important for you also when you begin to heal yourself through the power of forgiveness that you try to understand honestly and faithfully how that situation has affected you and how you could continue to affect them if you do not put an end to it. When they are recovering from a traumatic circumstance, they know that their mind works thinking of all kinds of possibilities, mistakenly judging both themselves and their ability to perceive the truth because their focus is pain and grief. You are not as unpleasant as the other person has said that you are and deserve to be treated with decency, compassion and respect.
Judging someone by their actions does not benefit them at all. Bright Hearts. When they judge another, including the person who caused the grief and pain, what they are doing is allowing the cycle to continue and repeat itself because they continue to live in the past, in the past where the incident happened instead of moving forward in The here and now. As long as they see the other person as some kind of enemy they will not be able to forgive them or have any empathy for them. Not be able to let go of the situation. We want you to free yourself from continuing to repeat these harmful memories. Forgiveness will not erase you, but it will make your occasional reappearance less painful, simply because you understood the need to let go of the person or people involved and released your dark and negative feelings to God in favor of His infinite Love and Light that can heal and nourish each of its aspects, its heart, mind, body and being.
As you work with forgiveness, Brilliant Hearts, it is important to identify which of your own needs were not met by this event that became a painful memory. It is up to you when it is time to cry for the burial of any traumatic event, but when they do, they begin to heal .
After processing the situation and understanding where the harmful acts came from, then you can deeply understand that you are more capable of what you have realized and go beyond any painful experience where it helps you to be empathic. To empathize with someone who was unpleasant with you and hurt you, you need to identify with that individual's own unique needs, what is your situation, try to understand your feelings and put yourself in place for a moment and try to visualize how It would be to live your life. This helps them better understand the person who made them feel hurt and discouraged. Understanding is the crucial element of the self-healing process.
When you empathize with another person or people involved in the situation that caused them pain and grief, take yourself to the rewarding door of compassion. They may feel sorry for the other person, perhaps sadness that they have not been able to find a better way to express themselves. In addition , they may even offer to help her in some way and wish her well, while letting her go.
Forgiveness helps them move through different processes to overcome their pain and grief and let go of that situation, including everything involved, which brings them gratitude. You are feeling grateful to have this experience because you helped them cultivate a stronger and more capable you. You know that you would not have learned how much strength you have without such experience. After having gone through that situation, they can clearly see their purpose and what they have taught them, and how it has helped them to develop more from the inside to the outside . You will always overcome obstacles, you know it because you have done it before, it is only that sometimes it is difficult for you to let them go so they can heal them.
Brilliant Hearts, you truly have moments in which you see in retrospect all that you have overcome only to remind yourself of what has happened. What happens sometimes when they visit again those memories that they have resolved is that resentment tries to emerge again by showing their unpleasant face. All you have to do is go through the process of forgiving again in order to regain the freedom that you granted yourself.
As we mentioned previously, as they forgive others and forgive themselves they notice that they feel more grateful and appreciative for what they have been through and what they are going through. Practicing gratitude and appreciation is a wonderful choice and way of life because it releases abundant amounts of positive energy in your life that has the ability to seep into other areas of your life. Gratitude, Bright Hearts, is one of the healthiest emotions you can feel and express.
Instead of returning to the memory of what they have solved, direct their approach to what they are grateful for, they could see a fresh perspective that puts them in a better mood. When they are in a thoughtful and grateful state of mind they move away from thinking negatively. You are able to be inspired and motivated through your new approach full of gratitude and positivity, able to nurture what you value most.
Practicing gratitude and appreciation on a daily basis will consistently help you raise your mood when life presents you with a challenge to go through. Even when they go through a difficult time, gratitude can help prevent them from getting discouraged. Shining Hearts; Thanks to gratitude you can recognize that you have a full life before you and that every meal is a feast, and that a stranger can become your friend. When they work with gratitude they are able to understand what has happened in their past so that they can bring peace to their present that may help them create a happier vision for their morning.
Brilliant Hearts, if you are truly capable of believing that no matter what happens in your life there is a divine purpose beneath everything, then you will be able to unleash the power of gratitude to a huge magnitude. When they have been hurt, we encourage them to forgive those who have hurt them and to forgive themselves, and to see that there is much to be thankful for, including the experience they have just endured.
There is a greater power operating, Brilliant Hearts, remember that all things will work as they are meant to do so and that you have all the necessary means to break all the chains of heartbreak. When they believe they can overcome their heart wounds, when they can forgive and move forward, they can see and appreciate the joys and peace that life offers and gives.
And so it is ...
I AM the Archangel [Archeia] Lady Charity through Julie Miller
Source : http://lightworkers.org/channeling/208811/so-long-resentment
by Julie Miller
Translated by Gloria M.
Archangel Archeia ~ Goodbye to resentment
