How often have they been considered tolerant and good, and then, as if from nowhere, does something come up that has them going backwards, grinding their teeth, enraged, and insolent with the person who has disgusted them? Dear ones, to be tolerant it is necessary to understand what tolerance means. Tolerance comes with the understanding that you allow yourself to have, both internally and externally, from others who are different from you, that it is okay to believe in different things than your own that do not follow your way of thinking. You have experienced many times in your lives and where they were required to be tolerant; But what usually happens is that a loved one pressures another to be more patient, to be more tolerant, to be defensive. Nobody is perfect. Everyone makes mistakes and has suffered setbacks and turbulence. When you work to improve your own I will see that there are others just like you going through similar changes. Don't judge so quickly, recognize their similarities. Allow their differences to unite them instead of driving them away.
The more intolerant you become, the more your ego takes hold of you and the more egocentric you become. When they take steps to reduce their own intolerance, what they are really doing is lightening their spiritual pressure and burden, which eliminates any internal blockage in their path. When they have issues concerning the way they relate to others, they begin to see their inner self exploring and discovering where their disgust comes from. Many times all the other person has done is shoot something that was already buzzing for a long time to surface . When disharmony arises, that is an opportunity for them to turn around and bring it back to their lives. When they do not feel in harmony, they often show antipathy towards those who have angered them, or when much takes them out of neutrality. But when they focus on healing and dissolving intolerance their confusion becomes clear and their perception changes, becoming more enlightened and wiser.
When they go inside to explore what bothers them, they find deficiencies in their attitude, which will help them turn things around and become more tolerant of others, but first they need to become more tolerant of themselves. How can they become more tolerant of themselves? To do this they need to accept their personal limitations regarding their mental, emotional and physical faculties. When you are tolerant of yourself, you help yourself to improve in many areas as you face your truth. As long as they still do not accept any immutable part of themselves, they cannot accept others.
My dear ones, it is essential to find out what they can and want to change and what is immutable, and to be fully accepted. They need to ask themselves penetrating questions that will require their absolute honesty. Are the changes that will really implement your time and effort worthwhile? One question will lead to the other to offer different answers, and they can choose what is pleasing to their heart, something they are willing to commit to in order to make a positive difference.
When you handle the aspects of you that need to change by being tolerant of your actions and choices, you will encourage greater possibilities of completing those changes. At the moment they become intolerant they simply add more pressure and prevent any change. If they could really accept themselves, then they could totally accept themselves, including their way of doing things, in order to become more tolerant of others.
As they take time to assess what they could use a change and more patience, determine if they can allow others, including their family, to be who they are, accepting them for the differences they bring. Are you able to allow your partner to be as he is without trying to reform his beliefs and way of life? If you are trying to change the way your friends or family live, then become your role model. Show through your actions, choices and words why it is beneficial for them to follow their path or similar; let them choose without forcing them, and if they want to continue where they are, then love them as they are, just as they are.
Understand, my dear ones, that intolerance does not encourage love but elevates animosity, which is known to be a loss of the precious energy of those where it lives, like a poison. When you let go of the intolerant attitude, what you are doing, my dear ones, is to give yourself a great gift of patience, understanding and acceptance of others, no matter what label or group you are under. You are able to see that they are also simply trying to go through your day, through your life, in the best possible way. They may not choose the best all the time and are simply trying to do what is best for them. Recognize what is human in each other, seeing that you are more similar than different, which will help you to unite them instead of further away.
The decision to become more tolerant is more than an active choice, it is also a liberation from the old stagnant ways of being and moves them to be able to observe more acute aspects of intolerance that could lie hidden hoping to show their face inside. To see intolerance more clearly you need to be aware of its effects on you. When you become aware of how intolerance makes you feel you can become more observant of the thoughts and feelings that pass through you. My dear ones, tell yourself that you are more than any feeling or self-centered thought. Intolerance could be a visitor to your conscience, but you don't have to claim them or stay with yourself.
For those who are on a spiritual path, does it matter if they are tolerant or not? It is difficult to move forward positively while harboring poisonous thoughts and attitudes towards others. To move in the direction in which your heart leads you, aligned with the Heart of God, the purer your heart is, the purer your path will become. It is necessary to cultivate a pure heart, my dear ones, if you wish to achieve more pure levels of consciousness and connection with God. When you allow intolerance to poison you, you are also creating a blockage in your connection with God. It is a lot of work and a great challenge to learn to be patient and tolerant of the self. It is something continuous that requires daily maintenance, but provides many lasting rewards. As we are nearing the end of our transmission, think about where in your life you can become more tolerant and patient. They will be providing themselves not only a great good but their relationships and interactions with others will also benefit greatly.
I AM Melquizedek
Source : http://lightworkers.org/
Received by Julie Miller
Message from Melquizedek: Working with tolerance
