You have been thinking, what is the best way to communicate with your newborn or unborn child? No, right? That is because we believe that younger children, such as " don't know how to speak, " have nothing to say, much less nothing to understand, especially if they are not yet born. This observation could not be MORE WRONG.
Children come to this world with an invaluable load of information about us, especially from the mother, information that has been captured during the nine months of incubation. Your son or daughter knows that this being called "mom" gives it all: food, shelter, calm. All this is kept in a chest full of emotions, preparing to face the world wanting to be born, or quite the contrary, creating distrust.
There are some parents who say "you have to talk to the child hard since childhood to prepare it ." Well, this is the other way around. Remember that the baby is not contaminated with the information we carry adults, but is capturing their first impressions. If these are "hard", cold, abrupt, the child in your womb will learn that the world is frightening, which will take away all the desire to be born; and if he was born, the desire to grow.
And more importantly, all the emotions that the baby receives will accompany him to his adult life. Then it is worth making a world where you feel confident and welcomed to be happy and believe in your dreams.
How to deliver good baby information to your baby
- In the first stage of your son in your womb, the formative stage, give him the message that the world is good and beautiful, then, this wonderful way of seeing life, will prepare him to face his birth with desire, as if he were going to reach a paradise.
- When he grows up, connect him with the magic of childhood, help him to believe in fairies, elves, enchantment and fantasy.
- Show respect for all living things, from an ant to a human being. You have to value life and healthily choose only to do good.
- Connect it with the ancestral, great-grandparents who are no longer there, their siblings even from different families, their pre-history, dinosaurs and everything divine, the sky, the stars, the energy to positive, laughs and caresses.
I am always a good mother and especially in the formation cycle of a child that lasts until the age of 21 years. It's still time. It is in your hands to deliver the right emotions to this new being created in your image and likeness
Source: http://patyvalenzuela.com
By PATRICIA VALENZUELA / @pattvalenzuela
We have to transmit our babies to be happy children
