They teach us since they were little that love will come one day riding on a steed ... that it is a prince, generally blue, full of beautiful qualities and that when it comes you will not know sadness because from then on everything will be happiness ... Lie? It depends ... I think everything is true, except that maybe we look for that prince in the wrong place.
We wander through life feeling unhappy and incomplete. We hope that another being will come to complete us and give us the long-awaited happiness and when we believe we have finally found him, we are soon disappointed because in reality it was not what we longed for. We are still looking for and many people are leaving their lives in that search and never find that great love ...
And those who finally found it, we recriminate ourselves for not being able to see it if it was there ... right on the tip of our nose and we weren't able to smell it or see it ...
The great love of our lives comes from us to ourselves and is not narcissism but the reality of our earthly existence: We come to live a three-dimensional experience here on Earth with the sole purpose of learning to love us since only then can we ascend and reach love others ... And it is not a cliché phase, but the great reality, since loving oneself means, first knowing oneself, then accepting oneself in all that we are, without denying our miseries and understanding our imperfect humanity ...
Love is unconditional so our love for ourselves must be above all human limitation ... Loving ourselves is understanding that we are the result of an accumulation of experiences acquired from the moment we are born and that we cannot deny any of them, because they are painful that have been, because all those experiences have forged the human being that you are today.
It is hard to love ... It is not easy to learn how to love each other as we get to know each other with our lights and shadows ... Many believe that loving is going to the hairdresser and spa every week and giving away taking care of your body ... but those same people arriving at home they are offended and trampled by a man who devalued them and calls them dumb or takes them in the face that they live at the expense of them ...
Loving each other goes much further than pampering the body but pampering the soul ... Loving is total acceptance ... Loving is loving your eyes, your hair, your smile, your childhood, your presence and absence of qualities, your past experiences, your successes, your mistakes ... If I love myself I do not give the power to "another" to be the owner of my happiness. If I love my joy and my sadness will not depend on others ... If I love myself I will be consistent with my actions ... If I love myself I will try to be happy every day of my life ...
You are not an incomplete being ... You do not need the completion of another because you have everything deep within you ...
Therefore, to all those who desperately seek the love of their lives I tell them to stop looking out there because it is not outside ... that love that will make you happy is the one that comes from within you and you procure yourself and that you are capable of turning to all the acts of your life ... When you fall deeply in love with that BEING that you are you will radiate so much harmony and happiness that it is very likely that lots of princes and princesas appear inviting you to leave and you, perhaps you will have to reject them because you will be very busy living an intense romance with yourself ...
Learn to love you ... It's never too late to start giving us what we've always longed for ...
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Me®
Source: http://mer-sanandoelalma.blogspot.com.es/
