Believing in oneself allows us to develop and grow, because if we believe we can, we will risk much more than if we think we are incapable of doing something.
People who do not have self-confidence stay in their known area and never explore anything new.
I was inspired to write this article a conversation I heard while traveling in the subway.
A girl of about 25 years, introverted and discreet appearance. He talked to a woman in her 50s, she looked like her mother.
From what I was hearing, the girl had been in parou for years and what she had experience, was the sector that had fallen most with the crisis. He commented that since the labor market was so difficult, he would have to look for work from whatever it was, as a waitress, cashier, etc ...
I was surprised by her mother's tone of laughter, she said that she was not working to work as a cashier or a waitress, that this was for spontaneous and outgoing girls. The girl proved him right and settled. The expression on her face changed completely, she went from being excited to being discouraged. Suddenly that possibility that could open the work doors, was settled.
I asked myself: Why do you listen to him? Even the opinion of our family should not influence us. Only people who think in a winning way, get to get what they want.
People with winning minds, are those who do not let anyone interfere with their plans and when someone from outside doubts their personal worth, they keep going the same way. They will never cancel actions that they planned to carry out, because of the opinion of others.
That situation made me feel helpless. The girl in front of her sitting in the subway seemed intelligent, with a good presence, but she was undervalued for being introverted, and not believing in herself, closed doors.
Each type of personality has its good and bad side, none is better than another. We need to accept ourselves as we are, so that all the potential we carry inside goes outside.
Believing in oneself is essential to take the risk and embark on new experiences. We will never know the potentials that we could develop, if we dare not explore new paths.
This girl did not trust herself and what is worse, she let herself be labeled believing that her personality would not fit with what she wanted to do. Never let a comment like: t you cannot, stop you in your decisions, even when that negative opinion comes from family members.
These bad opinions should serve to boost the desire to fight, since, if something is not tried, you cannot know if it was done right or wrong. Change the I am not capable by the believe in me and I will try it .
Believing in oneself is the most positive act that we can give to our person, because if you do not believe in yourself, neither will others.
Love and acceptance transform
When you accept yourself and believe in your possibilities, it transforms, and everything that seemed difficult before becomes easier.
The proof is that many insecure people make a big change when they find a partner that makes them feel loved and accepted. Love and acceptance makes each person get the best inside.
Finding it outside, in a couple, friendship, family, can positively encourage someone to grow as a person. But when you don't have it on the outside, you can get the same effect if you believe it inside.
You can love and accept yourself in such a way that nothing negative affects you is told.
Most of the limits we think we have are in our negative way of thinking. If we realized all that a human being can achieve, with effort and self-confidence, we would be amazed.
The girl I am talking about in this article, should have told her mother: “That is your opinion, but I think I can work as a waitress or cashier, because introversion is not negative, I have many other virtues that will surely value in my work".
If you let others tell you what you cannot do, you will not let your potentials grow. Trust you, value yourself and move on your way.
Source: http://lamenteesmaravillosa.com/creer-en-uno-mismo-no-dejes-que-te-etiqueten
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