Every day life saves us a surprise. Good bad. It depends on the place through which that conductive thread that leads our lives passes from when we are born until the thread decides to break. Things will happen, whether we want to or not. We try to be careful with everything, and we wish it for all of us. But one day, the one we least expect, we can go outside, stumble at our door, and open the chrism. Or that same day, we can go outside, and run into the person of our life. Who knows
While it is true that everything exogenous to us can become uncontrollable, we can manage to control our emotions, our feelings, and the way we see life. We do not know if today we will open our heads against a curb, or fall in love. But if we can go outside thinking we are going to fall in love. There lies our strength and the power of our mind. It is impossible to predict the future, since at first glance, nothing seems systematic in our lives, nor can it give us clues about what will happen in the long term.
But without a doubt, if we believe that we are going to be winners in our work, it is much more likely that we will be than if we think otherwise. And this is something well known to almost everyone, but almost nobody applies consciously and rationalized. Moreover, the prevailing mentality is that of thinking that things will go wrong, as if that were a kind of protective talisman against bad luck. We believe that thinking negatively, things will later become positive. We play with the justment of expectations .
If I think I'm going to suspend and get a five, I'll be the happiest person in the world. If I think I'm going to get a notable and I get a five, I will be more unhappy. But the reality of this example is that you have a five. With some expectations or others. But until you see that note on the board, you have been suffering, thinking that you are probably suspended, compensated in some way for that hope underlying any possibility of failure.
This is a somewhat simple example, but because of its proximity to my most recent daily life and my surroundings, I think it shows what I mean. Why don't we think we're going to approve? Fear? Fear of failure, of reality? If we follow what he said before, this fear is absurd. Well, our future will always keep one degree or another of insurmountable uncertainty, which will be there, yes or yes. We can face it with fear, or with positivity.
Fear makes us insecure, restricts us, and alienates the freedom of the mind, and therefore, of people. Fear is something natural, it is that alarm that tells us, be careful, something is going to happen. But what will happen? There are only two options, broadly. Something we feel as good, or something bad. Probably at a fifty percent chance. Does fear make sense then? Can we not turn our fearful ideas, our fears, into hopeful, positive, and more enriching ideas for the behavior and well-being of our person?
Benefits of being positive
It has been shown that people with a positive mind live longer and better than people we would call "ashes, " or negative. That is, a positive mind makes our thread stronger and more lasting. We can get up in the morning and think: "Wow ... it is cloudy, today it surely rains, often day, surely there are traffic jams, I will not get to work, my boss will take it with me, I will not have time to finish everything I have to do ... that's too much ... what a shit by day it comes. "
Or: "Go ... cloud day ... it's winter and it's what it touches ... it will be one of those cozy days of being at home or warm at work. I'll take the car, get out a little earlier and avoid traffic jams, so I can finish the job I have, which is quite a lot, but I'm sure I'm done with everything today And tonight ... film on the couch with the rain behind the crystals in the background. Great."
They are any two alternatives. One makes you go poker to work, which predisposes negatively to establish relationships with your colleagues and family, and the other, makes you smile, which activates in the brain substances that favor that state, and predisposes you to spend a day Current, but nice and positive.
A day-to-day reality is that positive people relate better and have more friends and acquaintances, as they are an attractor pole, waste and release positive energy, good vibes. You know that if you approach them you will have good feelings, and that is something that we all like. You know you will have fun moments, and most likely you will be infected with that state of positivity that is so needed today.
When we see a person we don't know smile, we "like him" better than someone who is by his side, serious and immutable, and we don't know either. This does not mean that we have to go down the street laughing as possessed, but a countenance with a gesture of smile and funny, conveys a satisfied, fun, and therefore attractive interior.
Being positive is almost synonymous with being happy. Let's put aside the fear of seeing the glass half full. Let's live every moment as something fascinating, and unique. Let's enjoy the power of now, let's think constructively. In a way that brings us joys, hopes, dreams, illusions, happiness.
Be positive! ????
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