Happy (almost) May for Everyone,
I have been thinking about how I was going to write this note for the month, in terms of maintaining the agreements. I don't plan what I'm going to write in the newsletter until I sit down and start writing. This month, however, I had a strong suspicion that what was coming again and again was going to be written this month. It is called "Maintaining Agreements." I got up at 4 in the morning a few days ago to write what follows.
In the past month I, and many close to me, have noticed what appears to be a pandemic of agreements breaking. Broken one agreement after another ... and broken arrogantly, leaving people reeling with what had just happened to them.
I questioned whether it was the experience of a current mirror or if it was something that appeared to be healed from the experience of all ages? I discussed "agreements" with friends, family, and with a highly respected psychologist and author. Pondering, discussing and writing, I realized that no matter if the matter is now or later, it exploded all over the place because we had not taken due care in the matter of breaking this agreement, or incomplete with ourselves or with Everyone involved. The alarm did not ring. It's a wake up call to take a deep look at the agreements ... to keep them or break them. For my part I am paying attention to mine in all this; taking responsibility to correct my part in its entirety.
This breaking of agreements had to be healed once and for all in each of us because it is creating a deeper decay in humanity. Realizing this, I became aware that this issue seems to turn off our radar as we are busy ourselves with things like learning to love ourselves in ways that are not all-inclusive of all aspects of the soul and of Being, being in the moment, (forgetting agreements made two months ago) discovering our passions, finding our perfect purpose or relationship outside of ourselves, helping those less fortunate than us with attached ropes, or a litany of other things on our list to seemingly reach greater awareness.
I feel that if we take care of this "matter of breaking agreements", other things will take care of themselves. This seems to be a “great give” (thank you Oprah) and can be wise to give to each one and to ourselves. Keeping our agreements is one of the great gifts that we were given to give. We don't get rich because of that, but in our hearts of conscience.
While during the month I was looking at the agreements breaking everywhere, as well as the wounds and chaos they caused, I thought, I wonder why hearts break, the psyches are bleeding and the walls that protect us are being built faster than usual? We have been deceived or separated again and again by others and also by ourselves. We have done it in big and small ways and it has to stop.
We humans have said "little white lies" acceptable, gaining tolerable incongruity and agreements breaking a "oh, I forgot it" or "well, things change." We create distortion confusion, blackouts and chaos in the minds and lives of others and of ourselves when we break agreements. We are supposed to live according to ourselves and not undressing ourselves or others, because we don't have the conscience to continue from beginning to end. (We tend to have a Master's degree in excuses, don't we?)
When we don't keep the agreements, we live in an incomplete state and make water everywhere. Gay psychologist Hendricks shared with me, "when we make complete agreements the power of the phenomenon cannot be overstated." In the same conversation I told him, “and when we don't keep the agreements that low level of consciousness goes to the planetary grid and mass consciousness creating a wave of fear and distrust. On some level we all suffer, ”I said… while feeling my own constriction and sadness for what I have contributed.
It is time for each of us to understand at the deepest and highest levels how impeccable we should become with our agreements wherever it is called when they say they will; send a person something they said they would do; move forward in a business agreement; serve three times weekly; honor what they promise their friends or lovers and do it when they say they will. We need to take impeccable oaths starting this same day.
There is power in the termination of agreements. The agreements kept our identity of the true Divine stable and enriches every relationship we have. They create a solid platform where others feel safe being close to us, creating a place where we feel safe being with ourselves.
Breaking agreements establishes weakness and distrust, not only in the minds of others, but also in their own. When we do not keep the agreements with ourselves we can go to the bank knowing that if you ask if we trust ourselves, our answer should be NO. Once we do not trust ourselves it is impossible to accept ourselves. Another pitfall of human nature. We do not need any setback in conscience. We need every reason to love ourselves back in totality.
Once we incur in not breaking agreements, then there can be no hypocrisy, contradictions of thought, word or action. Once we say “we will do it” we must, unless there is a very big reason that makes it impossible. We are responsible for talking about this and doing something for the common good of both parties.
Maintaining agreements elevates the human spirit to the Divine Spirit. When we make our large or small agreements with ourselves or with others, we will be wise to take them as sacred vows or say nothing about it.
Keep in mind any agreement left open in this incarnation will be recreated in another. I don't know about you, but I have no plans to deal with unfinished business here or elsewhere. It was a long tug and I choose to create a clean slate with myself here. I feel that my soul (and all souls) will be relieved.
So here is the action that I created. Maybe they would like to receive it for you.
Write down each individual or incomplete agreement that you can remember (not to judge yourself), to become aware of what we leave open hanging that decreases them energetically. ATTENTION: the ego will begin to give you a thousand and one reasons, either to not recognize something as an incomplete agreement, or to give excuses as to why you did not move forward. DO NOT PAY ATTENTION. Keep going!
Once this is done, go back through the list (it will be rather pages) and only be and be with each one. Feel what you feel when you notice each agreement that you did not close that includes the one you made with yourself. For me, this was like what I think life review should be. It was very painful and completely shocking. Ask yourself if you can do this (each) what could you have done to keep this agreement?
One by one, if possible, contact each person with whom you have made agreements and let them know that they have realized that it is important for you to first recognize and take responsibility for an unfinished agreement, then ask them if there is anything that you can do now to close the agreement circle. Then DO IT! You will be surprised by some of the answers you will get in a pleasant way.
If you can in no way contact the person in question (NO EXCUSES) then create a sacred culmination ceremony on each one. Remember that you can always speak to another soul.
When you have finished your homework (it will take some time, but it is worth it in every bit of it) please, write yourself a letter of forgiveness. Then another letter of commitment. This second will be easier than the other. I promise that from now on every agreement you make will be completed at the time you agree to do so. And so it is.
Closing, I would like to say this. I have learned that from now on I will not make any agreement with another until I have given myself 24 hours to be with whatever I am going to make that agreement. And, he will not make any agreement or promise based on fear. (Fear is the number one reason we make erroneous agreements and then we cannot follow.)
I have also decided that when anyone makes an agreement with me, I will ask them to take a day to make sure that it is something that makes them feel good and sure that they can fulfill it. As well as agreements with myself, they must now be made from the sacredness of my God Being regardless of their size.
Copyright Maureen Moss 2008
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Until next month I send each of you infinite Love and blessings.
Maureen Moss
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KEEPING AGREEMENTS: An article that you will not want to miss! It's key.
PUJA NETWORK FOR THE WORLD Maureen Moss
April 27, 2008 8:46 Hs.
May 2008; ALL NEW!
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