LIVING DOESN'T PAIN…
Definitive, like everything that is simple. Our pain does not come from things lived, but from things that were dreamed and not fulfilled.
Why do we suffer so much for love? The right thing would be for people not to suffer ... just to thank for having met such a beautiful person, that generated in us an intense feeling and that made us company for a reasonable time, a happy time.
We suffer Why?…
Because we automatically forget what was enjoyed and we began to suffer from our unrealized projections, for all the cities that we would have liked to know next to our love, and we did not know, for all the children that we would have liked to have together and we did not have, for all the shows, books and silences that we would have liked to have shared and not shared.
For all the kisses canceled, for eternity.
We suffer, not because our work is exhausting and pays little, but for all the free hours we stop having to go to the movies, to talk with a friend, to swim, to fall in love.
We suffer, not because our mother is impatient with us, but for all the moments when we could be confiding with her, our deepest anguish and she was interested in understanding us.
We suffer, not because our team lost, but because of the lost euphoria.
We suffer not because we grow old, but because the future is being confiscated, thus preventing a thousand adventures from happening to us, all those with which we dream and never have
How to relieve the pain of what was not lived?
The answer is simple as a verse: Every day I live, I become more convinced that the waste of life is in the love we don't give, in the forces we don't use, in the selfish prudence that nothing risks, and that, dodging of suffering, also makes you lose happiness.
The pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional ”.-
(CARLOS DRUMMOND DE ANDRADE)
Hugs of Light!