THE PHRASES: "SORRY", "PLEASE FORGIVE ME"
HA I
Good morning, PáKAU!
Let's see each of the PHRASES . The tools are "crutches", something to rely on to start changing our perception. We are trained for the reaction. We are trained from the polarity that leads us to judgment. This training is ancestral, so at the beginning we need these supports to start changing the way we see the world.
In this workshop, we have already understood how we give meaning to everything from our memories and, based on that meaning, we design our experiences. We now know that this meaning can be conscious and that we can change it at all times. This is what tools are for. To remember that we have the gift of choice. They must be attentive to receive their own tools for situations related to their own experience. Normally they are simple words, words that are familiar and that resonate us especially in a high vibration.
THE REPENTANCE - “I FEEL IT”
What do I regret? Why should I regret it? What is regret?
From our memories, regret would be something like accepting that we did something wrong and therefore we were not "good enough" what would immediately put us in the category of "bad" by default. That is ... if I have to repent of something, it is because I did not do it well, so that I am bad, I do things wrong or there is something wrong with me, this is a judgment that goes directly to the subconscious and becomes a mandate: "I am not good, therefore I am bad." Thus the ego operates reacting from the memories.
As the memories arise from the different meanings that we have given to our experiences, meanings that arise from the guilt and subsequent fear that our “apparent” separation from the Source has caused, we say that we have created them, accepted and accumulated. Then we have believed them, so they have become "beliefs" and others, ancestral mandates or collective beliefs of a completely distorted and insane mind. This concept I will repeat several times on the second part of this workshop. The concept itself is very simple, but sometimes it costs a little to incorporate it.
But then what does "I regret" mean? Why do I regret it? Why do I say "I'm sorry"?
The only reason I regret it is because I have tied those memories to my reality. I regret having chosen that wrong mind at some point. I regret having chosen reaction and unconsciousness. I regret having been looking “outside, ” when all the answers are “inside.” I regret having given control of my life to guilt. "I'm sorry" because I can recognize that I created those memories and then believed them; Now I KNOW that I can choose again in an absolutely conscious way and I KNOW that nothing bad happens to me. I KNOW they are only memories "touching" again, tormenting my Child, saying that I am not good enough. I have not been aware of this. I had no idea I could choose. Now I know.
There is no fault in this. Being unconscious does not mean being guilty of something. EVEN, THERE IS MORE: The famous "separation" of Divinity is a trick of the wrong mind. There is no such separation. Divinity resides WITHIN each and although we experience being separated from each other, we are ONE. A SINGLE Son of Divinity! There is no better or worse ... there is only ONE! There is no duality there. The famous separation, brought the duality, which brought guilt and fear, which brought judgment and pain ... BUT such separation DOES NOT EXIST ... So GUILT ... does not exist either !!! Nor does everything else exist ... even if we experience it ... they are the product of our choices and meanings assigned since the beginning of our creation: they are our MEMORIES.
FORGIVENESS - "PLEASE FORGIVE ME ..."
Who do I apologize to? If there is no fault ... why do I have to ask for forgiveness?
From our memories, asking for forgiveness is very similar to saying "I'm sorry" ... and finally we conclude that we have done something wrong, therefore we are not good. Asking forgiveness is a low blow to the ego. It is a step beyond saying "I'm sorry." There is also the "guilt" infiltrating in some way, only to produce the well-known ancestral torment.
Let's see how we see "forgiveness" from our memories. When we say that we forgive someone, this implies that we consider someone to do something to us and, in fact, that has been a bad thing. Someone did something wrong to us and we forgive the "hostile" act. This whole concept is wrong. The whole concept is stained by memories.
Accepting that someone did something to me against my will puts me in the category of helpless victim (favorite role of ego and memories). If I have taken 100% responsibility for everything that happens in my life, only I am the owner of my life and responsible for it ... and nobody can do anything to me, unless I allow it.
Anyway, even without this concept ... if I really consider that someone did something to me (although that is impossible ...), which I also consider to be "bad" ... to say that I have forgiven, it is already telling me that I ended up hanging from that and I can't forget it I am accepting that it has affected me (I have allowed it) and that I do not "forgive" anything ... because I am unable to release it. ALL the concept we have about forgiveness is an ancestral fallacy. Incoherent from beginning to end, as well as the erroneous mind that originated it. The meaning of PER-DONATE is included in the word itself.
The same thing happens with the English word: FOR-GIVE. It is too simple and plain concept. TO GIVE ... TO DELIVER. This has already been explained in the prayer section. Everything that distracts me from the fact that I am convinced that I have EVERYTHING (if I have God, I have EVERYTHING ... I don't need ANYTHING), everything that disturbs my Peace, is TO DELIVER the Divine Love.
When I say " lose me, please, " I am speaking with Divinity INSIDE me. I have recognized that there is an erroneous concept or experience, a distorted concept that I have to DELIVER to Divine Love to be corrected.
In turn, by asking for forgiveness, I am willing to do the right thing, to make amendments, to give a definitive solution to my erroneous choice. I don't need it anymore. I don't need that that disturbs me, that makes me angry, that makes me sick and kills me. All that distracts me, makes me believe that I that is missing something and I know that that is not possible, because if I have Divinity working in my life, I have EVERYTHING. I can't miss anything! If I have it ALL!
When something is not right, we immediately look for the culprit around us (outside). We are light to judge the Children of God. We have a tendency to glorify our sorrows, lacks, diseases we talk about them, we justify ourselves, we victimize ourselves, we feel guilty We have this tendency to dorar The more cumbersome and twisted, the better, after all, what will we do without our problems?
They definitely take us away from La Fuente. We cannot serve two masters at the same time Or we glorify God we glorify our problems (which, ultimately, are only our memories constantly repeating in our subconscious). That is why, by delivering everything that distracts us from the fact that we do not need anything, because having God, we have everything, it is a way of telling the Divinity that only she is enough for us that no We need nothing else.
Forgiveness only means liberate, deliver, let go to live the present which is a gift that is why call present . Allow the present to be what it is without resistance. As Master Tolle tells us: There is nothing more useless than resisting what IS
PEACE begins with me. Since I am Peace.
SOURCE: The author of this text Mario Liani (website) is unknown: http://38uh.comA good explanation about the Hooponopono liturgy