A message for Lightworkers Why is it so difficult to stop “self-sabotage”?

This week the Collective answers a question from a Lightworker who wrote asking:

Question : Why is it so difficult to stop the self-sabotage? Most of the people I know really battle with this. I realize that self-love is the cure, but it seems that this is difficult for many.

The Collective : Greetings friends! We are glad to have this opportunity to speak with you again. This question is excellent, one that deserves to be well thought out.

Well, you are here to learn to love yourself, whatever your life experiences in the past, or in the present.

And this can be a challenging path, love each other as they are and learn to let go of the conscious desire to "protect" themselves from possible dangers and future problems, preventing them from moving forward in their trajectory.

Some of you possess great skill in the arts such as music, dance or theater.

Others have a great ability in mathematics or science or technology .

And others are brilliant educating, raising, facilitating healing or comforting and encouraging.

And others more visualizing, designing, building or producing.

All these areas are those of a genius.

And although some areas are valued by their societies more than others, all are extremely necessary in their world.

We would say that one of the greatest things that could hold you back is never to wait for some perceived moment of perfecting your skills before leaving and offering them to the world.

The vast majority of Lightworkers are what is called 'sensitive beings', people who feel things deeply and take life seriously, although they love to laugh and enjoy life sometimes.

“Angel in Heaven in Stamford, Connecticut” - photo by Lynne Newman

Most of you feel that you lack the innate gifts or abilities - the "talents" - to offer the ideas or skills that others like best ("talent" is a strange word because true talent is doing what you were born to do, not because you are better than most, but because it is what gives you the greatest joy.

Then one day they notice that they have spent complete decades and still have not lived their dream.

You have never believed yourself to be "good enough" to publish your book, even if you now have numerous channels open to self-publish.

Or they have never competed in a sport or dance or music competition, nor acted in front of others before because they were pushing for the moment always in front of you, thinking that one day they would be good enough .

This is the self-sabotage you refer to.

It is not simply a matter of not doing what you like, or of not allowing wonderful things to come to you - Love, Abundance, Peace and Freedom.

Self-sabotage consists in allowing them to come, but in small quantities or low levels that approximate their dreams, but without allowing them to express them fully.

So we would say that they asked themselves today (not tomorrow, but today): “If I were already famous or succeeded in something, (whatever they define), what would be my next step? If I had already accomplished this, and heard everyone say: 'You are wonderful doing that' - what would I be doing right now? ”

And then, do that, or some version of it .

Begin by breaking the unwritten rule, unconscious, that you have been taught as children, that only the wealthy and famous can do what they want in this life.

Or that those who are young and attractive deserve to experience Love . Or that only those in certain professions can earn well, etc.

Let all those lies go enough to imagine themselves already at home in the vibration of doing or having what they like, having already what they dreamed in those moments when they allow themselves to feel at home in his true joy.

Feel that reality fully for a moment.

See and hear and feel what it is to experience that, be it independent wealth, a healthy and joyful family life, or a joyful romance, a satisfactory job, a successful business, a new artistic creation, some Months navigating the world - whatever it is, take a moment to imagine yourself as if you were already living at this time.

See - how are you dressed? Do they weigh more or less what they weigh now? Do they have better health and feel more vital?

Who is with you, if there is anyone? What is the weather on that cruise ship or on that hill above the sea, looking outside through the window of your new cabin where you are painting or writing works?

This is their life of the fifth dimension they are allowing themselves to see.

This life is his New earthly life, where there is no longer any excuse for not living his dreams, and where there are no impediments such as: "I will not have the money, " or "my family and friends would not approve."

Self- sabotage is a defense of the ego-mind.

While in the reality of the New Earth the heart-mind is the one who will inform you clearly and wisely about the next step in the path to fulfill your dreams.

You are all learning to love yourself enough to allow yourself that beautiful moment when you realize that you are now living the life you had once dreamed of living.

They are reaching a time when the "I can't" and "I should n't " will not enter your mind.

You are letting go of the old tendencies to protect yourself from a possible "failure" (although there is no such thing, there are only steps along the way).

They are allowing Joy and Creativity and Satisfaction, because that is what the energies that are now coming to Earth are supporting, fueling and empowering them to experience.

Yes, it is certainly exhaustive some days to address all these changes.

We know that many feel very tired, almost sick some days, as if they had been taken just to a strange planet where the atmosphere is very different and they were adjusting to the new air to breathe and to a new ground on which to walk.

Certainly their bodies, minds and spirits are making huge adjustments.

Understand that a greater love for themselves — allowing and accepting the level of self-love necessary to accept the Abundance and fulfillment of their dreams — is part of the miracle of the opening of the heart of the New Earth, the New Human.

So we welcome you to this new level of life and to live, and we tell you that: you were born to take this beautiful new Truth with both hands and claim it as your own.

Namaste, my dear! We are always with you.

AUTHOR: Caroline Oceana Ryan

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