On Loving Relations, Jeshua channeled by Pamela Kribbe

  • 2013

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English translation by Sandra Gusella

Dear friends,

I’m Jeshua. I greet you all sincerely. I am here with my full heart. I want to share with you, because you are my brothers and sisters and I feel a deep affinity with you. I am neither superior nor more than you, we are one.

We embark together to plant the seed of Christ energy on Earth, a seed that will slowly grow over time and sprout to a fully mature flower. At this time on Earth this journey culminates. It is the moment in which many seedlings begin to develop, and in many ways you are budding flowers. Together we form a unity, a collective of souls who are dedicated to the birth of a new consciousness. Then do not see me more as a teacher above you, but as a friend who holds you by the hand and wants to share your love with you, because I love you deeply.

You intensely desire love. They seek him in relationships with others, and also through the connection with the divine. But in truth what you are crying lies within you; It is your own divine nature, the part of you that is one with unconditional joy and love. When they experience this part of you, it feels like coming home. Everything else in your lives becomes easy, light and cheerful. You are one with yourself and do not need anything outside of you to feel good. They are a unit by themselves - and yet they feel connected to everything else in an intimate and profound way.

What is paradoxical about relationships is that you can only be intimately connected with another person if you are able to embrace the unity within yourself . If you are ready to accept yourself, with the burdens of the past, with your ups and downs - then there is room for another person with their unique individuality. Then they are no longer using the other person to return to Home. Instead, they share the Home they carry inside their heart with the other person. This kind of relationship becomes a joint celebration, a sharing, and it is a healing relationship, whether with a partner, with a friend, or a child; There is no essential difference. However, love relationships - couple relationships - are the most requested relationships of you. They touch them deeply and stir deep emotions, because they seem to hold the promise of returning home as no other relationship does.

Before talking about love relationships, I would like to remind you that the Home that you long for, that original unit from which you were born as a soul, is not far away. You can say that in the realm of time it was a long time ago that they began their departure, symbolically speaking, from Paradise. When you took your own path as a "soul in a body" and chose a certain way in which to manifest and submit to experiences and visit different places in the universe.

When you were born as an individual soul and embarked on your journey, you renounced that primordial unity, which you can imagine as a warm mantle of light and love that was so familiar to you. A unit where they always felt the secure presence of a Father-Mother-God, and then they were never afraid of being alone or being rejected. These "negative" concepts were not even in your understanding, and yet an archetypal power was working on God who gave birth to you from the womb of this Father-Mother-God unit.

What was the purpose of that birth? That everyone could become independent gods! That you yourselves could become the starting point of a Father-Mother-God source of warmth and love from which an infinity of beings were created and emerged. But the farewell in the beginning came to you as a shock. They realized that with this separation from unity came the knowledge that in order to truly experience the evolutionary process, they could not know anything beforehand. They understood that they could only separate from the primordial unity by following only their own path as an individual soul, who for the first time becomes familiar with fear, desolation and darkness of not knowing and not understanding.

You still carry that original experience of desolation and loneliness, which can arise very strongly in the arena of love relationships. But before addressing those relationships, I want to remind you that you have the possibility of experiencing that primary connection at all times. When you sleep without dreams, you leave your body and connect with the deepest source from which you come, with God, if you want to call it that, or with your deepest core: that part of you that never leaves Paradise and is still there . Although you left it billions of years ago, the unit is still within you; It is an inalienable part of your consciousness. During the night, if your mind is not too active and surrender to the dream and the non-physical realms to which they enter, then, as they leave your body, they assimilate that Source and thus they cool Also in your daily life, you can establish the connection with this reality of the divine spirit, of which you are an intimate part. By becoming very serene, you can feel that presence here and now. I invite you to feel how together, as one, we all constitute a part of that original face of God.

Imagine that in the middle of your chest, in your heart chakra, there is a bright, beautiful crystal. Imagine it there and feel its power: a pure, clear crystal in which all faces simultaneously reflect your numerous experiences. This crystal heart is also connected to everything that surrounds them. The feelings they receive from others can be reflected by this crystal, and so upon receiving their moods and emotions through the crystal, they come to understand others. From this crystal heart you understand the experiences of others: your sorrows and disappointments are clear to you.

This crystal heart is connected to the hearts of all living beings, because we are all one. And yet you can also feel that this heart, which you carry in your chest, belongs to you: it is your heart of the soul. Feel how both aspects go together. They are connected at the level of the heart a horizontal field that connects them with everything that is alive so that there is no separation since we are all one. However, you are also one, meaning that you are you, and no one else is exactly like you. They are an individual being and there is a vertical line that connects them directly with your Source, with God. They are in this physical body, which is the bearer of your heart, your own piece of God's consciousness.

Feel the immensity of this crystal: the infinite consciousness that belongs to you and still can go wherever you want. It is not tied to this body, although it is now in this body, temporarily, but it is an energy so vast that it is not bound in any way. You are this consciousness; You have brought a piece of the Father-Mother-God divine factory with you here to Earth. You are whole and complete within yourself, and you are the guardians of this crystal heart. Remember this, while we now examine the issue of love relationships.

When you fall in love with another person, you often experience an intense experience of charm at the beginning of the relationship. It seems as if something was opening within you, something that was hidden for a long time and that can only be discovered by the look of that other. The other people do not seem to see that something within you, but your loved one awakens the naked beauty of who you are. Return your passion and enthusiasm for life, feel seen and loved, and you will experience your own depth - your wonder. That is what you experience in infatuation. And although it seems to have to do with the other, it really has to do with you, with what the other evokes within you, which is delicious, a miracle! Only then do they seem to be awake and feel how much they have to give and how much they can be loved.

At that time, people usually get intoxicated with the admiration and wonder of this infatuation they experience, and blindly bind themselves to the person who aroused this feeling within them. She or he has the “magic wand” in his hands, and what at the beginning led to a revelation, and a loving feeling towards yourself as much as towards the other, gradually leads to losing oneself, as you become totally focused in the other one.

Then a battle with the other begins. You will want to own the part of them that makes you feel so good. And the other one often does the same with you, and you both get confused immensely by this struggle to pull the rope. In this way, the highest they can give each other finally brings out the lowest, namely jealousy, dependence and power struggles. This is an extremely painful fall that almost everyone has experienced in their life.

How does this fall happen? There are two parts within you. In that crystal heart that I described, there is a love in you that can see the other exactly as he or she is, and that you can experience the beauty there. From this space in your heart, you can enter into a constant and balanced connection with each other, in which you recognize the divine in each one and in which you also do not lose sight of the human in each one. You allow the other his pain, his distrust, his disappointments and his resistance.

But in your womb there is another energy at play, something that can be very strong, a destructive force in infatuation. I call this energy the abandoned inner child, who carries within it a very strong and deep pain that goes back to that original pain of the cosmic birth of leaving the Father-Mother-God unity. This child also wakes up when you fall in love, and this child has many emotions that can obscure your heart. These emotions can envelop the crystal heart and cloud the fact that you are the source of the delight and joy you experienced in the initial stages of romantic love. Those feelings had to do with you and the space you gave yourself, which was made possible by the other, but still has to do with you.

However, the child in you, who is hurting and crying out for the attention, love, and recognition he has lost so long ago, may be tempted to take his partner's neck; He wants to grab at all costs to get for himself what he lacks. In this way, the child and the crystal heart can end up on two opposite sides. What at first seemed to be very beautiful, becomes a destructive relationship where they will fight with each other and enter a fight that nobody wants, but that anyway happens.

The moment the magic threatens to disappear, you can become desperate. At all costs they want to hold on to their partner, because they once felt a feeling of absolute love with that person. They are going to fight to grab them, and your old pains, your emotions of anger, of fear of abandonment, even hate, can come into juice. Even then it is very difficult to release the other person, because they will be moved by a memory of how good it was when everything was in harmony.

At this stage it is very important that they know when to release. The moment they feel that your relationship enters a downward spiral, and that they are going to accuse and blame each other, it is time to step back. They can hurt each other so much, precisely because they have touched each other so deeply, and that pain is hard to cure.

Then dare to take a step back when you feel you are out of control, that you are being dragged by emotions that prevent you from approaching your partner with an open heart. They may feel a deep fear of being abandoned, or just the opposite: a fear of connecting so deeply with someone who gets lost in it. There may be other emotions such as anger or jealousy, but what is important is that you realize how the most intense emotions have more to do with you than with the relationship. The relationship triggers emotions, but they themselves derive from deeper causes.

What matters now is that you turn to the wounded and abandoned inner child, who is the real cause of your emotional imbalance. Doing this is not reponsability of your couple. And you are not responsible for the inner child of your partner. Making someone more responsible for their pain and waiting for them to heal it leads to enormous confusion in relationships.

So how can you see when the relationship, which was initially a loving union, is going wrong and is becoming unbalanced? Actually, there are clear signs, and one of the ways to discover it is to do a symbolic exercise with your inner child.

Imagine that at this moment you are standing in front of your partner. Or take someone who is very important to you, if you currently have no partner, and allow your inner child to stand on your left. Just imagine yourself as a child somewhere at the age of ten, and stay with that child on your left opposite your partner. Now see how the child responds to your loved one. Observe that child's first reaction. Ask the child: “What attracted you to him or her? What do you find so irresistible? What touched your heart, what fascinated you? And then ask, "How do you feel now?"

Did something happen to that original quality? Can the child still feel that love? In a healing relationship, that unique quality is still very present. It still feeds them, still shelters them, while at the same time your partner has acquired a more human form, with its own problems and ups and downs. However, some of that original magic is still there, and due to that magic, the problems can be overcome. If you notice that magic is absent, if your inner child does not really feel loved or feels unfairly treated, then something is happening that needs your attention. Take the time to discover this with your inner child.

To clarify the situation, release the image of the inner child and now imagine that you are in front of the couple you have chosen and watch how the energy of giving and receiving flows between you. First, see what they give to the other and feel it, and it doesn't have to be expressed in words, while they feel it. Watch what flows to you from the other, and feel how you feel in this moment. Do they feel more energized due to this giving, or do they feel empty and exhausted? Is it inspiring to give, or are you exhausted in doing so? Hold on to that first feeling.

After observing what you give to the other, observe the inverse interaction. What do they receive from the other? Just trust your first feeling as it comes to you. Do you feel good about what you get? Does it make your heart open more? Do you feel happier with yourself as a result of what you receive? The essence of a healing relationship is that the other gives them something that creates joy in your heart.

Finally, there is another sign of a destructive relationship. From your solar plexus - a place near your stomach - feel a "string" of energy that connects them to the other. If they are sensitive, maybe they can experiment that string. What you are looking for is the feeling that you need to possess the other; panic at the idea that the other is no longer here; Something pulls the rope. If you feel that, then that is essentially an umbilical energy cord that connects you with the other, and that gives you the feeling of: "I need it, I cannot do it without him or her." That feeling of panic shows them that they do not operate independently, or at least think that they are not able to do it without the other, and such dependence can lead to a destructive relationship.

In a healing relationship, it is natural to miss each other if one way or another they were separated. It is natural to enjoy and therefore long for each other's company. You may love the other, but you do not need the other. But in a destructive relationship, something evil is at stake. There is a feeling that you cannot do it or be without the other, that you are dependent on the other for your well-being - perhaps for your own life! - and this substantially weakens them. There is a deep fear of possible rejection on the part of the other, and that makes them feel small and constrained, and the whole relationship no longer has that cheerful space and that freedom that it had at the beginning.

Try to feel these things for yourself, calmly, in your own way. And don't be afraid to make room in the relationship to allow yourself to feel this kind of thing. Because once they are in a negative spiral in a relationship, it is often necessary for people to distance themselves from each other, physically and emotionally, to realize where each one is standing. . At that time it is not usually useful to try to talk things over. It is necessary that your energy fields first release each other to gain enough space to allow them to return to the center of your crystal heart. Descend with your consciousness into that beautiful clear crystal that is your essence. Do not depend on others to experience it in you; It is there for you forever. It is the whisper of God that you can hear in silence.

Feel then how, from the glass, rays of light radiate towards the child in you who still suffers pain and who is still looking outside of himself for acceptance. n, love and security. Let your rays of light fall on the child, and you can literally see that the crystal light seems to anchor as it flows deeper down your belly and all the way down through s from your legs to Earth.

This is your light, your only Light of the Soul! You are here to experience this light in a body on Earth. Your particular light is unique, it is your Angel Light, and if they remain connected to it, then they attract loving relationships into your life. They have no need of another. And they also have no need to do the other something perfect : someone who finally sees you in the perspective of your desire, and who unconditionally understands and embraces you the way you want make.

Love and unconditional acceptance will be found only in your own heart by and for yourselves. Do not burden another with that duty. That unconditional love is something between you and your Self. You can only give it to yourself, and when you do, you will become a source of love for others, because then you will You will have become completely honest and true with yourself. They love themselves, including the dark part: that child in you who sometimes fights and is tormented.

When you love yourself, you find it easier to see the other person from a real perspective . They no longer have to take offensive or hurtful things so personally that sometimes she says or does. Your actions or reactions belong to them, and it becomes easier not to respond so emotionally to that. The other person is no longer responsible for the salvation of your soul you are. You are the masters of your world, of your reality.

You are all on this path of self-realization, and you are already touching other people with your crystal heart: they are giving you sparks of love and hope. I thank you for coming to Earth at this time, in this period of change and transition. I am with you and care deeply about you. They are my brothers and sisters, and I love them.

Pamela Kribbe

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