The Expectations, by Magdalena Grimaldi

  • 2012

(By Magdalena Grimaldi)

In case of uncertainty, an expectation is what is considered the most likely to happen. An expectation, which is a future- centered assumption, may or may not be realistic. A less advantageous result causes disappointment. If something that happens is completely unexpected it is a surprise. An expectation about the conduct or performance of another person, expressed to that person, may have the nature of a strong request, or an order.

http://es.wikipedia.org/wiki/Expectativa

Having expectations of situations or people hurts us, it causes us pain.

If we expect something to happen as we have pre-determined or expect people to respond or act according to what is RIGHT for us, or as we would, we fall into disappointment, therefore we tend to disappoint and generate anger or sadness, that we create, without need.

We are used to WAIT, to wait for them to give us, to tell us, to make us, in a way, which is what you want it to be, but you have to know and understand, that what is in a way for a person, not exactly It is so for another.

When waiting for actions, words, actions, gestures of people and do not respond as we have wanted and thought it was the right answer, we tend to fall into criticism and judgments. We criticize I judged that it was good or not so good and that makes us uncomfortable with the situation or the person, since it did not happen what we considered to be what had to be or happen.

I believe that we have, that we should or if we would, we could learn to accept things and people as they are and as they happen.

That will avoid discomfort, resentment, anger, sadness, which are the ones that later, not knowing how to handle them, eliminate them or release them, they somatize somewhere in our body and cause what we commonly call diseases.

Learning to accept is the most delicate and stringent thing that exists, because it is not a behavior transmitted by our generations, but rather a paradigm that escapes people's minds.

We form previous ideas, according to our mental patterns and beliefs, of the response to a certain situation and of the planned exit to something that is presented.

We have a hard time understanding and assimilating that the universe is simply.

That follows a Divine and Perfect order and that everything simply IS!

It is, it is perfect and it is correct. Nothing is bad or good, it simply IS!

By understanding and assimilating this new mental pattern, this new paradigm we surrender to what is, IS.

This frees us from anguish and waiting and we learn to TRUST, which generates internal security.

It helps us simultaneously to love ourselves and surrender to the perfect order of life.

We understand that our creator takes care of us, and watches over us and we can know that everything that happens is because it is the best, we can also learn to see situations as opportunities for growth, progress for each day to be better beings and to BE!

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