Coaching also has something to say within the world of family constellations. Well, even if you don't believe it, each of us belongs to several systems. Without going any further, our own organism is a system, the family is another, the school, the company and its order of influence is, so to speak, its order of importance to us, so obviously the first would be the family. Therefore, today we dedicate our entry to family constellations in the world of coaching and how it influences them .
So are family constellations in the world of coaching
Through the “Family Constellation” theory, the ties that bind us to the different members of our family are revealed through the relationship between parents and children, as well as through the relationship between men and women. Family constellations are responsible for expressing the laws that guide our behaviors within these relationships.
And is that for those people who do not know, family constellations are a method that was developed by the philosopher, and self-styled psychotherapist Bert Hellinger . It aimed to free people from their conflicts. These tensions were not their own tensions, so to speak, but they came from past generations and had their roots in the events of the family's family history. client. These types of problems could include some as traumatic as family violence, premature death of parents or children, abortions, separations or rapes.
Any person is connected to a family and adopts certain roles within the family nucleus itself. Within a family, including all its members and those who are absent, are energetically present and influence the different people in the family.
Through these constellations, what is done is to discover the unconscious loyalties that can lead us to repeat behavior patterns, especially those related to the sufferings and the blockages that our closest relatives experience.
With values such as authenticity, you can see how many aspects of your life are not linked to your personal history, but in many occasions respond to a series of burdens that we carry unconsciously, and that are inherited from generations ago. They belong to the history of your family and you can only improve this aspect if the balance is truly restored . Thus, you can leave the patterns of suffering, guilt, etc., which are repeated unconsciously within your family nucleus.
The influence of coaching on family constellations
It is not surprising, but rather the opposite, as it is very frequent that in a coaching session a family burden appears that may require an intervention of what are called family constellations.
This also requires a coach with sufficient training to be able to provide this service . In the event that the coach does have this training, it will be when he can deal more specifically with that burden of the family past, or see if it really is another element of the client's system. In this case, the client would be left to decide how to deal with it.
You see that family constellations in the world of coaching are very important . So, if you are in need of a coach who helps you, it would be interesting if you had experience in this aspect. Only then could you achieve a truly complete healing that will lead you to live your reality in a full and total way and that will allow you to explore your world and needs.
Seen in Womenalia, by Pedro, editor of the Great White Brotherhood
