Can we all succeed?

There are some people who, as the legend attributes to King Midas, it seems that everything they touch makes it gold. These people are successful in almost anything they undertake, but is their success a matter of luck?

Most people who do not succeed believe that having it is a matter of luck . We will not deny that there are people, making a simile with poker, who have better cards than others to play the game of life. But still, all people have the ability to become successful people, but that requires discipline and applying certain keys and not everyone is disciplined or interested in doing what is necessary to succeed .

The first step to success

For those who are interested in being successful, the first of all is to know what success is for each one . It seems obvious, but many people are not aware of it. If you don't know what it means to be successful for you, you won't know when you got it.

Defining what success means to you is the first step in obtaining it.

For some people to succeed will be to earn more money, for others to have a happy family, for others to have health. Other people will feel successful if they have fame or recognition, others if they have a bigger house or a more expensive car than their neighbor's. Each person has their own concept of success.

Once you are clear about what it means to be successful for you, you have to get going, because success does not come into your life if you don't get going to get it. Action is key, if there is no action, there is no movement and without movement there is no possibility of change and to achieve success you have to change .

Not giving up when the first obstacle appears is one of the keys to success

Most people who do not succeed do not try to have it or when they do it they only try it once and if it does not work they give up . As I write this, an interview that made the British actor Charlie Hunnam, known for the series Sons of anarchy, after starring in the film King Arthur: The Legend of Excalibur . In that interview the actor explained that the first time he had gone to Hollywood he had done 104 castings and they had not selected him from any.

Anyone else would have given up, got frustrated and found an excuse to give up their dream. He moved on and now triumphs in Hollywood .

People who do not succeed do the opposite, abandoning with the first obstacle that is presented to them.

Successful people believe so much in them and are willing to overcome 104 failures, 104 tests or a million if necessary, because they are not able to imagine their life without achieving their dream . Only the one who, despite the fatigue and the road is difficult, decides to continue climbing reaches the top.

When was the last time you tried to achieve what you wanted and gave up on finding the first obstacle? You may not remember it because you buried that memory or you may remember it clearly because you do it often, you give up everything you want at every moment. You give up being successful because you decide that an obstacle is bigger than you . But that is only a limiting belief and that belief blocks your progress, we must not forget that what is inside creates the reality we see outside. Therefore, another key that will help you succeed in life is to get rid of the limiting beliefs that are blocking your progress.

Success is learned

Every obstacle you encounter along the way has the objective of making you grow and only those who grow and improve with each stumble succeed. Success is only the consequence of overcoming many failures and turning those failures into learning .

There are different keys to success, some we have already seen. Not giving up is one of them, perhaps the most important. In the following video I share another very important key to achieve success. If you like it and find it useful remember to share this article and the video so that it reaches more people.