Love Will Lead The Way, message from Archangel Sandalfon Received by Julie Miller

October 12, 2013

Be truly honest, how much time a day do you spend judging others? Are they aware of it when they do it? When someone walks by their side they think to themselves: "Gee, looks sad, or happy, or your clothes are messy, maybe they had a bad night, etc.?" No matter how little it could be, as soon as you have an observation type thought, there is a judgment involved in it. The actions and words of others are being judged, and we are aware that this happens more often than you notice.

If you are totally happy with yourself, and I mean 100% happy, then you have absolutely no reason to judge another dear being who shares your beautiful Earth. It is easy to guess and judge another without getting to know him but, are those judgments and assumptions based on what you know that that dear being is going on, have you walked in your shoes / put yourself in the skin of the other?

We have observed how many people judge others when they themselves do not feel completely good about themselves - there is a lack in their lives that drives them to judge others. Judging others does not bring them closer to living from their authentic selves, does not bring them closer to God, and in fact causes greater separation. Judging others without knowing who they are or why they are happening happens all the time, it is not pleasant, it does not denote Love or denote respect or compassion. And yet, all you need to break unhealthy cycles that are damaging yourself and others lies within each one of you.

Why do people judge others? There are many reasons, but the biggest ones are due to insecurities, fear, loneliness and seeking a change or a new direction. When they are unhappy, have they not noticed how quickly they criticize someone or offer biased advice when they were not asked? We have also witnessed that when dear beings pass through fear, it causes certain reactions. When you observe that someone is ahead of you and achieves what you wish you could achieve, you create ways to challenge that person to create a doubt in your life where there was none before. How many times have you been jealous in the past of the figure, clothes, haircut, etc. from another person who made jealousy overwhelm them and create unnecessary judgments or gossip? Well, being really honest - and we wish they were - you will come to realize that if you are not taking part in this negative behavior now, at some point in your life you have done so.

Feeling lonely and alone and do not belong anywhere is another reason why many loved ones feel necessary to judge and make assumptions about others, and instead of finding something in common with those around them, they find ways to get people away. good-hearted. Any bond that has been created due to loneliness was not created primarily from true Love and compassion. Understand that any link or connections you have made as a result of your judgment of others are, at best, superficial. They lack the key component of relationships and connections, which is Love, my dear ones. Love is what truly unites people. I could start as a Love for something that is similar, but it grows where compassion and respect play an important role.

Sometimes it is difficult to observe others making great changes and seeing even greater results manifest. You also want those changes and while watching others, instead of getting to work to bring your own rewards you fill your head with negative thoughts and judgments about the changes that people brought to your life. We know it can be difficult to be happy for the success of other people, but it does help your heart when you are genuinely and truly happy for the happiness of another dear being.

Have you ever thought about the damage caused by the trials? Even the slightest negative thought, word or action can create great chaos in the life of those who were targeted by their negative attitude. It is imperative to always think that what they are going to say, once they have said it, there is no magic eraser to take it with them. You can say "sorry" thousands of times, but the damage has already been done. When you hurt another with your thoughts, words or actions that judge, you not only hurt them but also cause damage to yourself. Nothing good comes out of criticizing or judging others.

The dear beings who take part in judging and criticizing others create a false reality, thinking that it is okay to treat other people badly or to belittle their value. Every time they take part in this activity they bring more damage to their own lives. Remember how the power of attraction works, when you do good things, good things come to you; when you do harmful things that you know are wrong, well my dear ones, I think you already understand how this works - you will attract the same in your own life.

Even in this modern era there are still stereotypes based on gender, spirituality, appearance and other labels and categories that create a deeper separation. Instead of working together for the betterment of humanity, what is created is small groups working separately as one. Judgments are often born within separate groups that stigmatize people who are within those invisible walls. It doesn't matter if a person is homosexual, Buddhist, Christian, black, white or any other kind of difference, she is still a person with a heart, she knows how to give and receive Love. Peace can be achieved when those walls collapse and others are allowed entry. Stripping the ignorance of different cultures and ways of life will bring Liberation, Unify through Love and Acceptance - and judgments will have no place here because Love has led the way.

No matter how you see it, dear ones, the assumptions made from judgments and criticism are negative. They do not bring a good thing to their lives, they cause damage and can have effects for life on the dear beings who received the onslaught of any word, feeling, thought or negative actions. Each of you is fully capable of giving and receiving Love and is equally capable of bringing an end to suppose, judge or criticize others. There are ways, and we know that you can end this negative behavior and bridge the gap between you and the Heart of God.

If you have honest and truly all the intention that the good and powerful end to the incessant need to judge others, then, dear beings, this begins by observing your own thought patterns. When you recognize negative thoughts forming in your mind, find out why they are there. Once you have found out why they appeared, quickly change these negative thoughts to others in a positive direction. Look for the positive. This will require that they pay extra attention and focus truly instead of always rushing. You are less effective if you are always in a hurry. They can't get to know someone if they don't give them time. If you are required to give an answer, choose your words wisely and find something positive to say, and if you cannot, simply do not offer any comments. Learn to make different choices that are not harmful to yourself or to those around you. You will create a more friendly environment that will help attract more people to your circle, thus creating a better support network to support people than someone You may need.

Learn not to judge a book by its cover. Do not quickly assume or judge another person unless they have been in your shoes / instead and truly know this person. Avoid judging people simply because of their appearance, gender, sexual preference, religion or other stereotypes. Silence is gold, dear ones; He provides them with incredible insight and allows others to be themselves without being judged or criticized, or that something is assumed about them. When someone is different from you, instead of misjudging your choices and ways of living, ask about your lifestyle. Ask things that indicate that you want to learn. Even when your ways are not your own, you acquire invaluable information and understanding of how other people live their lives, even if it is to a minimum degree of understanding this brings you closer s in a narrower link.

We encourage you to focus more on your own life than on what others are doing. The more they focus on themselves, the less likely they will be to compare and create assumptions based on false judgments and criticisms. End the vicious cycle of judging yourself. The more severe they think of themselves, the more severely they will think of others. Look at all the positive things that you have accomplished instead of focusing on the negative. At any time when there is a lack in your life, learn about this lack and discover ways like it will bring change and new growth that will illuminate any lack.

This is your career, dear ones. Although you are not totally spiritual, your choices are yours and you are responsible for them. If you want to have a happier and more satisfying life, then it is you who have to make this happen. We will always be there, guiding and supporting each of you at every step, but you have to desire this help and while we work on the spiritual side of your life, you are working positively on the physical side that will enrich every aspect of you They are in life who and are currently living.

Try to remember how you felt when you were wrongly accused or judged. How did you feel? It doesn't feel good. There are many ways in which you can attract more optimism and a positive change to your life that will repel any judgment or criticism you have at any given time. You can choose to demonstrate your kindness and security in your own person or you can choose to demonstrate your insecurities that come to the surface through you being cruel and critical. Understand, my dear ones, where the act of judging comes from - it comes from pride, not the kind of pride you feel when you have passed a test or crossed the finish line, but a false pride - the type of pride that is capricious and full of an air of superiority. Realize, my dear, that at any time you falsely judge another dear being, you have also become responsible for making the right judgment.

Do not make things worse by judging; Bring a change that is positive and welcome to your situations. Find out who the people are, don't suppose. It is okay to ask questions, asking shows the other person that you are willing to listen and learn, my dear ones, and that is an important first step towards Acceptance, Respect, Love and Compassion that your world greatly needs. . The changes have occurred for the best good and will continue to increase. Some changes happen more slowly than others, but time is at your side if you see time as your friend instead of an enemy. Be true to yourself and love those you meet.

I AM Archangel Sandalfon via Julie Miller

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LOVE WILL GUIDE THE ROAD Message from Archangel Sandalfon Received by Julie Miller