Do you want to achieve success for your life? Accept the Rejection!

In various publications I wanted to address the issue of success and how to achieve it; Today, I want to pay more depth to these Articles and tell you that to achieve success in your life you will have to move on to the next step: Accept the Rejection !

The word " no " is one of the easiest monosyllable terms in the Spanish language, however, it is the word that absolutely no one would like to hear.

Intrinsically this word is related to a rejection, which, if there is no previous preparation to receive the blow, it will be very strong and highly marked.

Normally, when you and I receive a no answer, the first idea that is developed in our lives is to “ throw in the towel ” (colloquial verbal speech according to the dictionary of the Royal Academy of the Spanish Language), give up, give up the commitment

However, the key to success would be grounded in facing that no, which would basically result in accepting rejection .

It happened to the English writer, screenwriter and producer JK Rowling, who received a rejection 12 times while trying to publish the first Harry Potter book, however, accepts the rejection and continues writing book after book. Finally, this rejection became an extraordinary success worldwide.

There are many examples to go to when talking about success and its conquest, however, all have had a particularity: "they received rejection and many" noes ". Do you know any cases? Tell us!

However, today I want to focus on the writer, Blogger, and speaker Jia Jiang, who for several years has been working and researching on rejection therapy, says that when man accepts rejection, the suffering he may feel in the event of an occurrence of these is much less painful.

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Jia Jiang tells that, wanting to start his own company, there were many noes that he received, however, the insistence, his being that accepts rejection, and his perseverance, achieved an extraordinary Company capable of achieve success in the short and medium term.

The first goal that was programmed was to overcome his fear of no . That was how he began training so that, upon receiving each refusal, he did not present any ailment or failure, the idea was to get used to being rejected . Surprising! Right? Would you do it?

And what did he do? Jiang for 100 consecutive days, began to provoke situations that would aim to receive a no .

For example, he borrowed 100 USD from a stranger, asked to be given another soda at the burger without paying for it, asked for an unknown girl to have dinner with him. As you can imagine, in all these situations the reaction of the counterpart will be a resounding no .

According to this writer, the idea is to get used to suffering from tiny, but not real, so be prepared for when the time comes to receive non- capitals.

Given this idea, one of the most important works of Jiang Rejection Proof: How I Beat Fear and Became Invincible emerged, becoming invincible, expert in rejections and winner of fear.

Now, and what was it that led Jiang to remain rejected for 100 days?

He says that fear of rejection was what prompted him to remain rejected for 100 days, and try to become a rejection expert .

Because of fear, many of the opportunities that life offered him were letting them escape, he was waiting for the approval of all people daily.

Jiang says that all this need for approval, then, that all people liked his projects and what he was doing, was paralyzing his growth and expansion.

Look, it's as simple as this argument. If you wait for all the people to give you their approval, you will never reach an agreement, it is impossible for everyone around you to agree with you.

If you act on the premise of waiting for everyone's approval, it is very clear that in the end you will do nothing.

I want to invite you to reflect on the following questions: In your life, have you accepted rejection ? Do you want to achieve success without waiting for others to approve your ideas?

Now, and what was Jiang's big dream ?

In his interviews, he states that setting up his own company had been his dream of a lifetime, however, it took him a long time to set it up because of his fear of rejection .

Perhaps at the first difficulty, when you begin to receive criticism, the ideal would be to give up, however, I invite you to think like Jiang, he says: “ Well, it is really just an opinion ”, and how it happened to him From that moment, start experimenting with rejection, in order to achieve success and overcome all kinds of obstacles.

How do you like this challenge? Difficult? Of course not, you are a Being capable of achieving what you program for your life, you are a Being with prodigious abilities!

The idea is to seek rejection for a period of 100 days, the first goal you should program is to overcome your own fear of not .

It is really simple, start by getting used to suffer minimums, but not real, so you will be preparing for when the time comes to receive the no older.

You can do it as Jiang did, with clear questions and requests that would lead to an overwhelming and definitive conclusion.

And ... what would be the objective of this technique ?

In the words of our speaker, " with the aim of learning from the pain caused by seeing me rejected and thus gain confidence in myself "

All this will lead you to properly handle situations that involve a direct rejection, that when you receive a no or a negative criticism you do not sink, rather, that this action leads you to think about those strategies that you would implement to receive a resounding yes.

If you do so, you will realize that by asking yourself about how, you will begin to find great possibilities for improvement, and you will be able to possess "the reins in my hands" as Jiang says.

It would be important that you read the complete interview made to the creator and researcher of rejection therapy, the writer, Blogger, and speaker Jia Jiang, “the man who became expert in being told no: To succeed in life is it is necessary to know how to accept rejection ”.

Finally, I want to invite you to reflect with me on the next event.

Jiang says that in his life he has suffered a lot of rejection, however, he says that what has made him suffer the most was not a "no", it was a "yes".

He comments that at a point of sale of the Krispy Kream chain, he very respectfully requested that they give him a donut, this, in order to sharpen his acceptance of the rejection and receive a no, however, what he received was a crispy and sugary donuts, what I saw as a no, became a resounding yes.

I want you to ask yourself, how many “yes” have you lost in your life to assume that the answer is a “no” ?

I invite you to be very aware of our next publications, we have material under construction that will be very good and pleasant help for you and yours.

I wish you abundant successes and blessings, A Hug of Light !

“Rejection is a matter of numbers: you can get rejection from one person and approval from another”

(Jia Jiang)

Author : William Hernán Estrada Pérez, Editor in the Great Family of Hermandadblanca.org