Decide or obey Do decisions generate guilt?

  • 2017
Table of contents hide 1 Do you do what you decide or what you obey? 2 Do you have obedience vows? 3 Release 4 Forgive our offenses as we forgive those who offend us 5 Notice that you are faced with the opportunity to start over and sow the seeds of what you want to reap. You can decide again. 6 A help to decide

Do you do what you decide or what you obey?

Is it hard for you to decide? Are your decisions yours or do they come from someone else's wishes? What is the real reason behind the things you do? From the need for approval and recognition comes the need to please others above your own values.

decide to obey make decisions for you

decide to obey make decisions for you

Do you have obedience vows?

If you grew up surrounded by strict people or who got angry easily and made you feel guilty about their emotional states (maybe they even physically assaulted you).

You may have unconsciously promised yourself to avoid making others angry at all costs ; And somehow you go through life depriving yourself of things to avoid being punished or feeling guilty.

If you want to go further, probably in this or another life you were a military, religious, priest or monk ... And you submitted your will, needs and actions to those of an institution or a superior.

If you start analyzing, the military ask permission to rest, to retire, etc. And they say: "I only followed orders" to endorse the responsibility of their actions.

And religious even restrict eating habits, sexuality, etc ...

With the above I do not want to reach a point of saying that it is right or wrong, but to detect if that is still valid for you, if that still reflects your values ​​and who you are. Or if it causes you discomfort right now.

If so, I invite you to breathe deeply:

Get in touch with that moment within you and what you feel towards those people and say: “Thank you, I am willing to let go of the need for you to decide for me. From now on I will make my own decisions. ”

Loose…

Now, it makes no sense, that you resent the people or institutions you obeyed. By this I mean that we often become what we hate or judge.

I invite you to ask yourself, who do I rigorously demand obedience, who do I manipulate, punish or make guilty? Who I don't let be?

You thought of your children, your partner, someone in particular or said: Yooo? Nobody!

And you? Do you do it to yourself

The important thing here again is not that we look for a culprit, but that we find a solution to your discomfort.

And the only solution is forgiveness. And this comes only through acceptance. Accept that the past cannot be changed.

Also recognizing that when learning is made mistakes. We arrived in this world without a manual, we are all here learning at the point of trial and error.

That includes you and those who offended you.

Forgive our offenses as we forgive those who offend us

Giving is how it is received. According to the law of cause and effect and the law of karma, you have received so far what you have given (consciously or unconsciously) in this or another life. And as the law of reflection and projection pray your outer world is an echo of your inner world .

It is the voice of your soul screaming that you have wrong, limiting beliefs. That they are not a reflection of your true essence. That is free, unlimited and pure unconditional love.

As you know your thoughts create and transform your reality . If you change your thoughts, your feelings and actions will change, hence your reality.

What if you decide to stop seeing yourself and seeing others with the eyes of the past ? Decide to see with the eyes of the one who created you.

Donal Walsh says that God sees you "as a little child who learns to walk " does not hit you because you fell! Look at yourself and treat yourself with that patience and love.

Notice that you are facing the opportunity to start over and sow the seeds of what you want to reap. You can decide again.

Remember that the most sacred gift that God gave to man and differentiates him from all creation is called free will .

That unique ability to decide. If your decisions or lack of decisions took you to a point where you are not happy. Then I have news for you. You can decide again, choose something different.

A help to decide ...

The best choice is always the one that gives you peace . When making a decision, think about each option and pay attention to your body . If you feel relaxed, happy is a great choice. If any option makes you feel anguish, anger, restlessness ...

Ask yourself what is the real reason behind what you want . Do the 5-why test. And find out if it's worth it or if there's a more pleasant way to meet that need.

How is it done? You simply ask why or why I want this? And once you answer yourself you ask yourself the same question and so on. It is a very revealing exercise! Take the test and comment!

A cyber hug full of light and love for you

With love KarlaCarola

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