Table of contents hide 1 But it is very important that we learn to identify in the same way what are the harmful energies that we are sending to the world from within. 2 Next, I want to share with you four tips that will help you distinguish whether you are acting for the light, or for chaos. 3 What would I do instead of the other person? How can I make this happen from a problem, to be an enriching experience for both? 4 It may seem very obvious, but I invite you to review your recent actions in your last relationship, and you may be surprised.

Many times, I like to talk in the articles that I share with you my way of interpreting the world. For me, there are two types of energy . Those of love, light and unification. And those of hate, darkness and chaos. We have already learned to identify some of these negative and harmful energies that reach us from outside the world.

But it is very important that we learn to identify in the same way what are the harmful energies that we are sending to the world from within.

A warrior of light knows that it is not perfect. And that facing your own demons is even more difficult than facing the world. Precisely because those demons or negative energies live and have always lived in their hearts. They know how to adapt, change shape and above all, camouflage very well.

That is why, on many occasions, we are fully convinced that we are doing the right thing. When in reality we are only feeling great cretins . It can be very, very difficult to learn to identify when we are occupying our courage for a just cause, and when we are simply being envious or cruel.

Next, I want to share with you four tips that will help you distinguish whether you are acting for the light, or for chaos.

1: Analyze how you treat service people: Many times, we can have a pretty kind idea of ​​ourselves. We think that all the time we are warriors of light . But sometimes, just look at the way we treat subordinates, counter employees, waiters, technical support staff, etc. To realize that we take out many of our own problems of self - esteem and egolatry in them. Sometimes we do not receive the service we expect. But neither do we think that it may not be the fault of the person who is attending to us that the company's processes do not meet our expectations. Or maybe it was a mistake. However, before raising your voice, intimidating and being rude, you have to always think. What is the kindest way to solve this?

What would I do instead of the other person? How can I make this happen from a problem, to be an enriching experience for both?

2: Discover the true motivations of your actions: If you need to repeat to yourself several times that you are doing something because it is the " right thing " and that " the end justifies the means ", be careful. The actions of light and love that are fully grounded usually do not need to be thought or analyzed too much. We simply know what needs to be done. However, if you have to ruminate your arguments over and over again to justify something you did or want to do, it is likely that it is a negative impulse trying to take the form of a luminous action.

3: Stop lying to yourself: In the same sense as above. Sometimes it takes a lot of work to accept before ourselves that we have behaved badly. And instead we create a kind of argumentative patch on our head that allows us to " hide " the lack. Do not be tempted to do so. The acts of each one of us and their consequences will not reach sooner or later. Avoid pain in the future and admit responsibility for your actions today. The earlier you do it, the more time you will have to find a solution or repair the damage .

4: Identify your blackmail and manipulation behaviors: Everyone, ABSOLUTELY ALL know how to manipulate . It is a skill that we acquire from a very young age and is not necessarily bad. We manipulate our mother with crying to give us affection, even if our physical needs are covered. We can manipulate our playmates to access play with the rules we like. We manipulate the first image we give in a job interview. Etc. Manipulation does not necessarily follow mean ends. A mother manipulates the behavior of her children so that they are obedient and kind, for example. What you should always keep in mind is that: Manipulation does not pursue selfish ends. Do not attempt against the individuality and free will of anyone. And don't aim to hurt anyone or put them in danger.

It may seem very obvious, but I invite you to review your recent actions in your last relationship, and you may be surprised.

5: Learn to channel anger: Getting angry is fine. It is normal. We are human and negative feelings are a fundamental part of the emotional spectrum. Denying anger brings horrible long-term consequences. It is like a rabid dog that we throw in an empty and lonely cage. His resentment will only grow. It is best to learn to accept it and do something about it. Anger can be channeled in very healthy and wise ways. Sport, volunteer activity, dancing, arts, etc. Find your own magic wand to turn anger into gold.

Remember, you are a warrior of light. The road is difficult. But is it worth it.

AUTHOR: Kikio. Editor in the big family hermandadblanca.org

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