I want to help someone but it is not left
Who does not let himself help us, when he is someone very dear we can feel very sad, worried or frustrated. Especially if we have already exhausted our options and feel tied hands. In this video I explain a meditation technique that I have used in these situations with good results
Why don't you let yourself help?
Because he feels invaded, maybe it's something he feels is very private.
Because he feels offended, he thinks your offer is a form of distrust or limitation. And he wants to prove you wrong.
Because he does not know that he has a problem or underestimates its dimension.
Because you may be projecting your pain for an old wound in your situation. But for that person it is not painful.
people who don't want anyone's help ...
When someone doesn't want your help ...
I am sure you have the best of good intentions but I want to invite you to read with great objectivity the following patterns that generate pain in relationships:
Feeling very evolved: it may be a pleasure for you to help and you have a lot of enthusiasm for the things you have been learning that have transformed your life. But to a large extent the success in your transformation has been precisely that internal motivation, your desire to change and be different. We all have our rhythms and our own development process, if you look back on your life you have made many “mistakes” but thanks to them you learned a new way of doing things and got to where you are.
The need to help: it is something that generates suffering, so that you avoid suffering, I recommend asking you in what area of my life am I acting similar to this person? Look at the word with which you describe the person or the situation of the person you want to help ... with whom or in what area of my life am I being that word? And you may discover that this situation is present in you, even at the other extreme. The world is a giant mirror that shows us what it takes to look inside. If you heal in yourself what you see in your loved one, you will be able to see a true miracle of how he himself moves forward or perhaps you can understand his point of view.
Repression or Need for expression: If you feel that in your family or environment they do not understand you and you have so much in yourself that you want to share it generously ... I invite you to pour all that energy into creating a blog, share your experience, that knowledge ... Find or create groups of facebook, whatsaap or even people who meet in your community where there are beings with a perception of the world similar to yours and feel how support flows.
You can only help who wants to be helped
This is true only when we communicate from words because from there it is very easy to contact the personality and the Ego. I invite you to do the exercises that I teach you in the video to speak from your heart from the language of love and blessing so that from that divine spark that is in you connect that part that is pure love in that person ... And that Grace Divine flowing through the blessing generates good for both. You will see that there is a difference in your feeling and in your perception ...
How do you feel after doing the exercise I propose? leave me your comment
A hug full of light and love for you!
KarlaCarola
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